Dear future husband: If my family asks for 260k for my Lobola, a 5 star wedding & my honeymoon to be ko Antarctica ?? , we going to home affairs ro Sign’a ma luv ? Go to Nandos for Reception with the strangers we asked to be our witnesses!Most parents out here saying “my child is educated”, who’s duty was that? ?‍♀️ I want my marriage to be more beautiful than my wedding! Cant allow you to be paying multiple loans your whole life just because you now conformed to society’s standards!! plus size wedding gown